Coaching links
Acceptance and Committment Therapy (ACT) skills
Acceptance
What is ACCEPTANCE in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy? Pushing away paper exercise (Russ Harris) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buCd1-CUJ8I
Controlling the Controllables - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DwWyZaUMhRs
Willingness
Dropping Anchor
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fch45RTDtAc
A – Acknowledge your thoughts, feelings, emotions, sensations, memories etc.
C – Come back into your body – move your body and take control of those movements
E – Engage in the world around you and in those things that are valuable to you
Values - Find your WHY
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CuZyq6ckGE (Simon Sinek)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4ZoJKF_VuA Start with WHY -- how great leaders inspire action | Simon Sinek | TEDxPugetSound
The Choice Point
The Choice Point – A Map for a Meaningful Life – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OV15x8LvwAQ
Green arrow/towards moves = doing things and acting in a way that is in line with your values/purpose. These actions help you to live out your values as a musician
Red arrow/away moves = being “hooked” by thoughts, feelings and sensations that take you away from your values. You are reactive to strong, persistent, or unhelpful thoughts, feelings and sensations.
Becoming aware of when you get hooked, as recognising the moments when you can choose the direction you want to go in is the first step in changing your behaviour in stressful circumstances
From here you can “defuse” your thoughts, feelings and sensations…
Experiential avoidance
Defusion
Audiation
Hear It Before You Play It: Leon Fleischer Workshop – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAsA9EZc08c
Hal Galper's Master Class - The Illusion of An Instrument - https://youtu.be/y_7DgCrziI8?si=DUCtPCWJ9NivGLl_&t=175
Effective Practice techniques
Robert Bjork on Desirable Difficulties - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XPllm-gtrMM
Review your repetitions/rehearsals/performances
The Ultimate Debriefing Process - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IcRJugiUcY
Fast passages - Chaining
Rob Knopper’s ROAM Method - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcNZsN0MRtE
Blog on cognitive latency ie. how fast our brain responds to external stimuli and how to practice fast passages with this in mind - https://blog.christopherberg.com/2017/11/16/virtuosity-unveiled/
Effective Practice Structure – Spacing, Interleaving, and Performance Practice
Spaced repetition
Interleaving
https://www.performanceup.com.au/blog/blocked-vs-interleaved
Noa Kageyama on Interleaving - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jDPayczkWyI
Include “Performance Practice” ie. performance run-throughs throughout your practice sessions, in-between interleaved sections. Eg. You can practice sections A, then B, then C, and then do a short performance practice of one movement of the Bach. Then continue for the remainder of the session with regular interleaving.
Varied repetition
Mimi Zweig Practising in Rhythms - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rYWmgp12Q34
Focus & Attention
Seek and ye shall find!
https://youtu.be/Yr7Wkz7W7Vs?si=IdOyHkdKnJoS7NRL&t=109 (Tony Robbins colour exercise)
“Where focus goes energy flows” – what you focus on will get stronger!
The Monkey Business Illusion - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IGQmdoK_ZfY
External focus of attention
Waterslosh video
Focus your attention on the EFFECT you want to create ie. the sound, character, story or emotion you want to convey in the music. This is called an External Focus of Attention, or a point of attention OUTSIDE your body. This will help you learn and perform at a much higher level, as opposed to focusing on the body movements and mechanics needed to produce that effect. This is called an Internal Focus of Attention, or a point of focus INSIDE your body.
Experiment with where your external focus of attention is ie. move it closer to your body (proximal) or further away (distal) eg. closer = a specific part of your instrument or the music stand. Further away = a seat in the audience, the back wall, or fill the whole space with your sound
Research shows that when something is more familiar to you then using a distal (further away) focus of attention produces a better result. If you are still learning the music and aren’t confident with it yet, then using a proximal focus of attention is more beneficial. Experiment with this and see what produces the best results for you.
Dr Molly Gebrian series - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0dKzQ3bB88
Performance Cues
Explore your performance cues, and test out different ones to see which works the best for performance
Write your cue words into the part, and use them to guide your focus throughout the piece of music that you are playing
Don’t say DON’T! (Ironic Processing Theory)
How To Stop Holding Yourself Back | Simon Sinek – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W05FYkqv7hM
Goal Setting
The Domino Effect - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5uHUVyy3rNw
Next step instead of the top of the mountain
Focus on the next step you can make each day, so you can get 1% better
Make your next step as clear and specific as possible, so it makes it much easier for you to complete the step without feeling as overwhelmed or stressed – Hobart ➡️ New Town ➡️ Smith St. ➡️ 14 Smith St.
Prioritisation – Traffic Light System
Use this to prioritise your tasks each day and week.
Start by putting your most time-critical and important tasks, or the tasks that need the most work into the top section (red)
Write out the less time-critical/important tasks, or those things that still need a bit of work in the middle section (amber)
Write the least time-critical/important tasks or the things that need the least amount of work in the bottom section (green)
Doing this exercise each week will help to clarify and prioritise the things that you need to do that are the most important, valuable, and meaningful. Instead of thinking that everything is in the “most time-critical and important” zone, you can look at all of your tasks a bit more objectively, and work out which ones carry the most weight, and which ones you can leave for a few days or a week, or even get rid of useless tasks that carry no value for you.
Flash cards and the Leitner System
Levels of Learning
BLISS – Unconscious Incompetence – You don’t know what you don’t know
AWARENESS – Conscious Incompetence – Your inadequacies are clear and you can’t do what you want to do
EFFORT – Conscious Competence – You can do what you want to do, but it requires considerable concentration and effort to achieve
FLOW – Unconscious Competence – You no longer have to think about what you want to do, you just do it. Performing well becomes a habit
Music Performance Anxiety
Why Athletes Choke Under Pressure - https://medium.com/grandstandcentral/why-athletes-choke-under-pressure-12d1a256c531
The Courage Triangle
Building courage = Risk ➡️ Fear ➡️ Courage ➡️ more Risk ➡️ more Fear ➡️ more Courage etc. ♻️
Separate the Person from the Persona (the human being from the human doing)
One significant factor in Music Performance Anxiety is when your PERSONA (what you DO ie. making music) is tightly fused or intertwined with your PERSON (who you are as a person)
Recognise that you are worthy as a person, no matter what outcome you achieve on stage. You don’t have to “prove” anything to anyone, you just have to try and head in the direction of the things that are valuable and important to you.
“If you have to do something or achieve something in order to be someone, you’ll never be content, you’ll never be fulfilled, and you certainly won’t have unconditional love” – Ben Crowe
Ash Barty's mindset coach Ben Crowe on Wimbledon - and some secrets of her success | The Drum – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9NgCDYLT-gg
When you notice the “I’m not worthy” story that your mind feeds you, recognise it as just a thought, defuse it, and make moves towards your values.
Mental practice/rehearsal/visualisation
Mental Practice - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDoRmIOhjd4
PETTLEP Visualisation - https://bulletproofmusician.com/pettlep-a-7-point-how-to-guide-for-visualization/
Mindset
The Power of Yet, Carol Dweck - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-swZaKN2Ic
Jason Alexander on failure - https://youtu.be/r_d-Ga2Ro1Y?si=JpduILsAO9qjJqnZ&t=480
Motivation
Intrinsic vs extrinsic motivation
Self-Determination Theory - https://positivepsychology.com/self-determination-theory/
Bring your focus back onto your intrinsic motivators
Psychological Safety
McKinsey & Company, What is psychological safety? (2023) https://www.mckinsey.com/featured-insights/mckinsey-explainers/what-is-psychological-safety
Duhigg, C. New York Times Magazine, What Google Learned From Its Quest to Build the Perfect Team. (2016) https://www.nytimes.com/2016/02/28/magazine/what-google-learned-from-its-quest-to-build-the-perfect-team.html
Seconds Pro Timers
https://www.intervaltimer.com/timers/11129790-3-minute-interval-practice
https://www.intervaltimer.com/timers/11129789-5-minute-interval-practice
https://www.intervaltimer.com/timers/11129786-4-minute-intervals-45-min-session
Self-recording
Rob Knopper – the complete guide to self-recording: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tRw4Hqr__x8